sexuality, seduction and intimacy
In this article, we will address a sensitive subject, and that is not characterized by too intelligible. So with some ideas a little daring, try to throw some light on the inner man, his sexuality and infatuation.
First sexual dimension we distinguish in our three levels:
-biological level, we realize it, simply by having a sexual organ that is stimulated mechanically and once stimulated, due to laws and instincts on which the intelligence or lack of it seems not to influence. Biopsychological
-level: where emotions emerge, because we like being with other people. But we can distinguish two aspects: on one hand we tend to be with another group of people and secondly the tendency to form a couple.
-level "rational spirit": while human sexual behavior is motivated by instinct, should not be governed by instinct, but by the power of this dimension: reason and freedom.
But What is the meaning of sexuality in human life? Overall, we consider ourselves as sexual beings, how we need to be with other people, some people accept as sufficient the meaning genital gratification prioritizing its constraints and sexual impulses. But be content with that, it devalue a person, because even animals direct their sexual activities for more than that.
To achieve its broadest sense, sexual activity must meet the needs of continuity of the species and the individual's need to connect personally with another. Sexual activity or practice that does not pursue either of these two needs, is among the most disappointing sexual experiences and desolation of mankind. Often described as pleasant and satisfying sexual activity that goes beyond the gratification of sexual impulses and constraints, but the reality is that these pleasurable sex but ultimately end up disappointed, not because they are bad or not give pleasure, but because not enough. The inner man is not made for that alone, but yearns for what PRIVACY call.
intimacy between people is the soul of sexuality, is the man's own sex. Intimacy should not be confused with genital relationships. These could and should include privacy, but this may occur outside of this reality. Because we understand by intimacy deeper dimension of our sexual being, is the fusion and coexistence of personalities. Understand why it is essential to feel full and fulfilled as sexual beings we are, become intimate. To take an example to clarify what we refer to that privacy.
Imagine your best friend is about to go live in another country and so decide to share a cute moment but simple with him. So, spend the afternoon in a square, one in which great moments have passed ... are together, having a few mates, talking and remembering old times ... sharing those things in life that few people share, leaving you light "I" deeper, which melts into everyday Dialogues, and merges with your friend when she noticed that you listen carefully, and feel the same as you. It is a quiet moment, you do not say anything surprising or anything tragic. It is that time passes unconsciously without realizing ... and has become a time of intimacy. Maybe you never stop to think about what happened, being a natural ... but at the end of the lecture and go home, you feel something special inside you, is the joy of having lived a moment of privacy. Consider
is reached the moment of intimacy when the trial does not bother me or criticizing the other person about what I share with her. Paradoxically, it reaches the moment of intimacy when you stay with a person long enough to discover the differences between them. Intimacy is the ability to specifically associate with others and the ethical strength to meet those commitments.
privacy can be met only after you know the person long enough to let you affirm yourself firmly to him or her, because they appreciate the gifts you have. It's intimacy, when I let them allow me to know and who knows.
But when you get intimate with someone is something extremely difficult in our time, a little belief that what is not, not palpable or not sold, does not exist, and partly because the people meet of different sexes, only it's seduction. This feature we must have teenagers, because after our immaturity we can not identify it, and if we are guided by lust may end up believing that we "love."
Every young, once in life, able to perceive what is seduction, we can identify the recalled some person who loved it, that after crossing a few words and see their physical appearance and way of being, his personality was so impressed by our level biopsychological that when I get home, we create around your image, the perfect couple. Without realizing the difficulty we find that we can not stop thinking about him or her, and before bed to sleep, we enter the world of ideas, fantasies and the imagination, considering that person our soulmate, our soulmate or love at first sight, and we feel "in love" ...
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The seduction of another person to us can be confusing. Suddenly do not know what happens to us, do not know what to do ... and if it is cute and very young these things, as we grow we begin to mature in order to form our sexuality so that we're the ones who direct the course of our life, complementing and regulating our sexual. We must distinguish the main differences between intimacy and seduction, considering the surface of seduction and depth of intimacy, the passenger of the enduring charm and intimacy, it gladly of seduction and plenificante of privacy, is humanly important of seduction, and the essential spiritual intimacy.
With this more or less clear, we can create criteria to guide our future actions, thus forming a mature, responsible and intelligent and able to find in the integrity of our persons, the virtues that will make our lives a path to happiness.
"Seduction attracts 2 people, the intimacy of fuciona"